Selfishness Is Not Always Bad

It might actually be the only way to define your boundaries

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You are so selfish! A remark that drives many of us into a defensive mode.

But I am not…. remember when I did XYZ for you. I am just busy right now, maybe later?

We say maybe later knowing very well we are swamped. Or feel that we are being taken advantage of. Or…